July 10th, 2009

A little early bird feedback about MY KPW

I was so blown away by this email that I had to share it.  Thank you SO much Paige for your support and welcome to the family!

“Dear Kate, It was so good to talk with you Tuesday evening.  It is such a pleasure to talk with and share experiences with a passionate person like yourself, who love what they do and don’t want to settle for second best!  MY KATE PARKER WEDDING website site, WOW!  Do you ever get any sleep?  I am so impressed by your initial plan and design.  It just confirms to me that you are one in a million and that is so rare to find these days.  I think what is so refreshing is that you call your plan, site, idea… a family.  This is exactly what I have been searching for, a venue where we as vendors, have control over our work, points of view within the industry, but most importantly have a place where we can be supported as talented artists and hopefully develop relationships among ourselves not only as vendors within and industry but as friends that are excited about each person’s individual successes.  I have learned over the years within the Museum world that the most successful individuals were those who were the most open with their own thoughts, experiences, successes with others.  I would love to be a part of MY KATE PARKER WEDDING site!

Great job!  You really nailed this!

Best,

Paige

Check out Paige Hiller Photography to see her work:

www.paigehillerphotography.com

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July 8th, 2009

2009 Vendor Advice and Trends from Meagan Gilpatrick – Maine Seasons Events

Meagan Gilpatrick from Maine Seasons Events gives some advice to brides about Wedding Planning! Website: Maine Seasons Events

Image by Sharyn Peavey Photography

Some morsels of advice when working with a Wedding Planner:

  1. Be prepared to communicate your likes and dislikes, bring pictures, magazines, etc. to convey your wedding vision.
  2. Be clear on who is contributing financially and how much.
  3. Follow the lead of the planner when prompted to make key decisions relating to vendors. The coordinator will keep you on track with your planning timeline.
  4. Be prepared to listen to the recommendations of the planner. They have experience and inside working knowledge of how things will work best, and they know which things to avoid.
  5. Prioritize your top 3 areas of focus for the wedding: Is food the most important element to you? What is second and third? Photography and music? Or is it décor and location? Having the key wedding elements prioritized prior to planning can ensure your budget is allocated in alignment with these priorities.
  6. Once you have made a key decision, don’t change your mind. Make thoughtful and rational choices and stick to the plan. Changing details increases expenses, time and work for everyone involved. Make sure that you choose things you really love and feel good about, then once you have decided on your flowers, food, colors, etc., don’t continue to look at pictures in magazines, read wedding blogs, etc., searching for ideas – you will inevitably find a picture of something you think you like more than what you have already chosen. Trust your first instinct and don’t choose something unless you feel confident about it.
  7. Having said that, be prepared to choose your battles – a venue that you love may have restrictions that you don’t like. Is the venue location worth having to end your reception by 10 in the evening? Maybe it is. If so, it is always worth asking for an extension, but if the final answer is “no”, then be prepared to work with that.
  8. Obvious, but worth mentioning: Be kind, be polite, be friendly. Treating vendors with respect and trusting their professional talent to do what they do best is simply good manners, use them.

Some current trends in weddings:

  1. Color, color, color! Customizing every element of the wedding to tell a color story, integrating everything from beverages, stationery, table linens and the bride’s shoes. Couples are choosing non-traditional color combinations to create unique and memorable events.
  2. Personal Accents: Many couples are getting hands on with their wedding preparations, from designing their own invitations, to building the Chuppah, sewing their own veils and making their own wedding jewelry. Couples utilizing a skill or talent to create personal and unique wedding elements is an increasing trend now.
  3. Many more couples recognize the value and in many cases, the necessity, of having an independent professional coordinator throughout the planning process and increasingly, on the actual wedding day. Hiring a wedding planner or coordinator for some element of the wedding – even if it is only for rehearsal and wedding day coordination, and planning for this service in the budget is a critical step for many couples.
  4. Thinking outside the flower box when choosing table centerpieces: food, vintage toys, buckets, tea tins, recycled and repurposed items are finding their way to the table tops of today’s weddings.
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July 8th, 2009

The Wedding Budget-Personal Flowers

In a recent blog post I briefly explained many of the aspects of floral and event design.  I am going to break down the more traditional floral budget today, starting with your personal flowers.  I will explain how much you should budget for each portion of your design and what items you should be considering.  Typically flowers in general will be around 8%-10% of your overall wedding budget.  That would break down to the following amounts:

$2,000.00-$2,500.00 8%-10% of an under 25k overall wedding budget (based on 25k)

$3,000.00-$3,750.00 8%-10% of a 25k-50k overall wedding budget (based on 37.5k)

$5,200.00-$6,500.00 8%-10% of a 50k-80k overall wedding budget (based on 65k)

$8,000.00-$10,000.00 8%-10% of an 80k and up overall wedding budget (based on 100k)

Your flower budget will most likely be broken up into the following parts:

10-20% Personal Flowers – greatly depending on the number of attendants
10% Ceremony Flowers
5% Cocktail Hour Flowers
50% Reception Flowers
5% Special Extras

These are very approximate percentages as some brides will have one bridesmaid in her wedding party but will want a lavish place card table arrangement which would in a sense reverse her % for personal flowers and cocktail hour flowers.  Use the above breakdown as a guideline, but don’t worry about it at all if your amounts fall outside of these parameters.

Personal Flowers- 10-20% of your flower budget- these flowers can add up quickly depending on how many people are in your party, how many grandparents are attending the wedding, and the styles and types of flowers you decide to use.  Using the above guidelines for an overall flower budget, you should expect to spend the following amounts on your personal flowers:

$300.00-$375.00 10%-20$ of a $2,000.00-$2,500.00 flower budget (under 25k overall budget (based on 25k))

$450.00-$562.50 10%-10% of a $3,000.00-$3,750.00 flower budget (25k-50k overall budget (based on 37.5k))

$780.00-$975.00 10%-20% of a $5,200.00-$6,500.00 flower budget (50k-80k overall budget (based on 65k))

$1,200.00-$1,500.00 10%-20% of an $8,000.00-$10,000.00 flower budget (80k and up overall budget (based on 100k))

Here’s a basic rundown of who you might want to include in your list for personal flowers:

Bride- bridal bouquets range in price from $50-rarely to $500.00.  More expensive flowers, ribbon wrap treatments and adornments such as rhinestone monograms or pearl studded stephanotis will also help add to this expense.  My advice, this is the only place you should ABSOLUTELY splurge if you want to… you are the bride after all :)

Image by McNamara Photography

Image by Allison Hope Photography

Bridesmaids- average wedding will have 4 attendants and bridesmaids bouquet will usually run anywhere from $35-$150.00.  The same reasons apply for the wide range of pricing here.

Image by Studio Nouveau Photography

Image by Kim Chapman Weddings

Junior Bridesmaids- not everyone will have any, but typically a smaller version of the bridesmaids bouquet is completely appropriate.  Cost usually runs $35-$50.00

Flower Girls- again, some brides will not include a flower girl, but depending on their age and comfort level there are a number of adorable options for flowers: a small bouquet to match the bride or bridesmaids, a basket to toss petals, a basket with flowers sitting inside that can’t be tossed- if tossing is not allowed at your ceremony area or your FG is too little to understand the concept of equal petal tossing :) , a wreath of flowers for her hair, a pomander of flowers to carry- a sphere completely covered in flowers that is held with a ribbon, and the list goes on and on.  Typical cost for this wide range of options is anywhere from $15.00-$75.00

Image by Eve Photography

Image by Studio Nouveau Photography

Image by Allison Hope Photography

Mothers- this season I’ve had 50% of my mothers choose to NOT wear or carry anything.  The only etiquette here is if one mom has a flower the other mom should too- if there are in fact two moms attending.  Some brides have step mothers they would like to include, others have a girlfriends of their fathers’ that they want to give a flower to.  As long as you’re not offending anyone with your decision, I think you can do pretty much what you’re comfortable within this department.  The same goes with the father’s boutonnieres.  Most moms ask to wear a corsage, a wristlet or to have a small version of the bridal bouquet and the price range for these flowers is somewhere between $15.00-$50.00

Grandmothers- if you are fortunate enough to have your grandmother(s) attend your wedding, it is very appropriate to honor their age and wisdom with flowers.  Almost all Grams prefer a corsage or wristlet, but there are a few sprite and sassy Nana’s out there who want to wear something in their hair, on their purse, or actually have a small bouquet.  Pricing is the same here as the Mother’s flowers, $15.00-$50.00.  Go Nana!

Groom- the all important boutonniere for the groom.  I suggest having his match whatever you’re carrying and to also incorporate the same wrapping style if you can, makes such a nice and cohesive look to your photos.  Typical pricing will fall between $5.00-$20.00.  The price range is dependent on the type of blossoms and if there are any other unique adornments here, just like the bridal bouquet.  It will be a bit higher than the groomsmen usually because either your florist will make you two just in case one needs back up, they have to over purchase that particular flower to guarantee it’s the highest quality, and they usually spend the most time on the bride and the groom’s personal flowers to guarantee fabulousness!

Image by Roxanne Ashey Photography

Image by Allison Hope Photography

Groomsmen, Fathers, Grandfathers- it’s usually easiest to have all of these bouts be the made of the same flower and wrap, although some people still want to give their BM something special.  No real etiquette here, but the price range will be somewhere between $5.00-$15.00

Ring Bearer- often one of my favorite personal flowers to make because they are usually so adorable and tiny, the ring bearer will typically wear a smaller and simpler version of the groomsmen bout.  If the flower is too large or to adult-like for the little guy, like an orchid or calla lily, a simply spray rose bout usually does the trick and they’re very tolerant of the running around, falling down, and general chaos that comes with a ring bearer.  I would say a price range would be $5.00-$10.00.

Image by Melissa Koren Photography

Additional Personal Flowers- some people want to include godparents, a special aunt or uncle, the officiant if they’re not in the military or a member of the clergy since they can’t wear any flowers, and some have additional ushers for seating.  Readers and greeters might also be included in this list.  The pricing will be the same for any of the above items already listed.

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July 7th, 2009

The MY KPW Vendor Landing Page

When a bride wants to look at all of the vendors within her state and budget, she will be taken to the Vendor Landing Page where she can select any vendor category either using the left hand list, the photos across the page, or the list along the bottom of the page.  Let me know what you think of this design!

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July 2nd, 2009

The Wedding Budget- Tents

If you’re having a tented wedding, be prepared for additional costs and additional vendors.  There is no way around a tented wedding costing more money since you have to bring EVERYTHING on site.  Here’s a list of items you need to consider when working with a tented event that you wouldn’t need to deal with if you had your wedding at an existing venue.  You don’t need all of these items but it gives you a pretty complete list to work off:

Reception Tent
Tent Flooring
Cocktail Tent- rain plan option
Catering Tent
Lighting
Generator
Tables
Chairs
China
Glassware
Flatware
Linens
Napkins
Barware
Catering Equipment
Bathrooms

If you want to learn more about tents, check out one of our past blog posts here:

What you need to know about tented weddings

Reception Tent: So this is pretty obvious.  The size of your tent depends on the number of guests you’re having.  If you are planning on an outdoor ceremony and/or cocktail hour, make sure you consider getting the next size up for your main tent as a rain plan.  Better yet, consider a cocktail tent if your budget and space allows.  In addition to your tent, you need to consider tent sides- clear, mesh, white, windows, a dance floor if you’re not having a complete tent floor, and maybe even a stage for your reception entertainment. Depending on the size and style of your tent, this will vary from $500-$10,000.

Tent Flooring: If you have the budget I highly suggest tent flooring.  This ensures your guests will stay dry if it rains, they won’t have to take their shoes off to prevent their heels from sinking into the grass, and overall a floor brings a new level of sophistication to your outdoor wedding.  You might also need flooring if the ground isn’t level.  There are flooring options that can be assembled directly on the ground or they can be built up to ten feet above the ground to compensate for hills and valleys (Strata flooring.) If you have flooring you don’t need to rent a dance floor and you don’t need a stage for your band either.  Your catering tent will not need flooring also- as long as they are on flat ground. Tent flooring starts at $1.50 a square foot for a direct ground installation and $4.00-$5.00 a square foot for a Strata floor. 

Cocktail Tent: rain plan option: If you are having an outdoor cocktail hour it would be a great idea to consider a cocktail tent.  If it’s really hot out it will help your guests and any stationary hors d’oeuvres.  If it’s cold out you can heat the space.  If you are planning on an outdoor ceremony, using your cocktail tent as a rain back up plan is also a great idea.  Most cocktail tents will come in under $1000 depending on the size and if flooring is required.

Catering Tent: If there isn’t a kitchen or garage that’s available for your caterer, you will need a catering tent.  Usually a 20×30 is plenty big and if you have a fairly small guest list you can get away with an even smaller tent.  Simple flood lights are all a caterer usually requests in terms of lighting and they’ll also need tables- without linens- to work on. Most catering tents will come in under $1000.

Lighting: You can spend a lot or a little on your tent lighting.  Working with your tent company, they can provide you plenty of light for practical use- perimeter string lights, pole lighting, and sometimes paper lanterns and general uplighting is available.  If you wanted to go over the top with lighting, consider a professional lighting company who can come up with some pretty incredible designs.  Washes on your tent ceiling, GoBo patterns on your dance floor and ceiling, uplighting on the sides of the tent walls, pin spotting on the dining tables, and the list goes on and on.  Be prepared for a hefty bill for lighting depending on how complicated the design is- anywhere from $500 for perimeter string lighting and pole lanterns to $50,000 for a custom computer controlled light show that shifts throughout the evening at the touch of a button.

Generator: If it’s necessary, a generator is a great expense because it guarantees you will not blow any fuses during your event. There’s nothing worse then your caterer blowing a fuse when using the coffee makers at the end of the night.  I would ask your caterer, band, and lighting specialists what they require for power before investing in a generator.  Depending on the size of the generator, plan on spending $500-$3500.

Event Design Rentals: There are a number of items that will need to be rented for a tented wedding and they make up about 7%-10% of your total budget.  Here are the items that make up these rentals:

Tables: This is the not so fun part about a tented wedding since most of these items are provided by a reception venue.  You need tables for dinner, bars, favors, gifts, place cards, cake, catering tables, cocktail tables, stationary hors d’oeuvres tables, etc.

Chairs: There are many options that cover all price points here.  From the least expensive Samsonite white folding metal chair, white or natural folding padded garden chair, Chivari ballroom chairs- almost any color, and then there are specialty chairs such as benches, ghost chairs, crystal flex chairs, etc.  The range of pricing is from around $2.00 a chair to upwards of $50.00 a chair.


China: Lots of options here as well.  You will need china for your main dinner which will include: dinner plate, salad/dessert plate, bread and butter plate.  If you have stationary hors d’oeuvres they might require a small bread and butter plate as well, so check with your caterer.  Simple white bistro china will cost under $1.00 a piece to rent upwards of specialty gold rimmed china with a heavy filigree pattern at $3.50 a piece.  Most rental companies include coffee cups and saucers with their china patterns so don’t forget to order those as well.  If you want to save money you can consider using the fancy plate for your dinner plate and then use a simpler less expensive pattern for your accessory china.


Glassware: Same as china, there are plenty of price and design options here.  Simplest would be the standard clear glassware that would be appropriate for your table and barware.  Then you can upgrade to a thinner glass and get into shapes and colors to add to your table decor. You will need a water glass and wine glass for your dinner tables, plus a champagne glass if you want to toast during your meal.  Pricing will range from $0.45- $4.00 a glass.


Flatware: Although there are not as many patterns for flatware, there are plenty to choose from ranging from stainless steel to sterling silver and even gold plate.  You will need a salad fork, dinner fork, dinner knife for sure.  An additional salad fork for dessert along with teaspoons for coffee service and a soup spoon if you have a soup course will complete the list.  Most patterns stay around the same price range, usually between $0.50-$2.00 a piece.


Linens: There are unlimited design options here, ranging from cotton to dupioni silk and then some.  You will need linens to cover all of your rental tables other than your catering tables which will help save a bit of money.  I HIGHLY suggest linens to the floor in order to create a more cohesive and complete look for your wedding.  There’s nothing worse than seeing the legs of a rental table.  A 120″ round table linen will range from $18.00-upwards of $500 depending on how ornate your design becomes.  Most pre-made linens will range from $18.00-$75.00 a cloth.  Here’s a quick run down of what size linen fits what size table:

60″ round table = 120″ round linen- standard dining table seating 8 comfortably and no more than 10 guests- which will be tight
72″ round table = 132″ round linen- oversized dining table seating 10 comfortable and no more than 12 guests- which will be tight
36″ round table = 96″ round linen- perfect for your cake table and low-top cocktail tables
48″ round table = 108″ round linen- for a small stationary hors d’oeuvres table, or a small place card table
6′ banquet table = 90″ x 132″ rectangular linen- for buffet service, place cards, gifts, favors, dining tables, bars, desserts and coffee
8′ banquet table = 90″ x 156″ rectangular linen- for buffet service, place cards, gifts, favors, dining tables, bars, desserts and coffee
30″ round x 42″ tall hi-top table = 120″ round linen- this will not fit perfectly, you really need a 114″ round but most rental companies do not make that linen size.  Perfect cocktail tables.


Napkins: Don’t forget to order your napkins, either in simple cotton, linen hemstitch, or a custom colored napkin.  Order extra for bread baskets and in case your guests drop theirs on the ground.  Your caterer will give you the number of extra napkins they need as well.  Pricing ranges from $0.75-$5.00 a napkin, usually capping off at $2.00 a piece for linen hemstitch.

Barware: You will need a lot of glassware for your bars and don’t spend your money on expensive fancy glassware here.  Go with the standard, “Libby” rental glassware that will take care of business without breaking your budget.  Ask your caterer for quantities.  You can always splurge on a signature drink glass if you want to :) Standard glassware usually costs around $0.40-$.050 a glass.

Catering Equipment: If your caterer does not own all of their cooking equipment you will have to rent these items, ranging from propane gas grills, heating cabinets, refrigerators, convection ovens, etc.  This equipment will range in price from $20-$300 so be prepared for a heft addition to your catering bill if they ask you to rent their equipment.

Bathrooms: If there isn’t a bathroom on the property, or if you don’t want to burden the septic system, consider renting bathrooms.  The most inexpensive way to rent bathrooms would be to rent port-a-potties which will cost under $500 a piece.  If you want to upgrade, look into restroom trailers which range in price from under $1,000-$5,000 depending on how fancy the inside is and how many stalls each trailer has.  If you can, I would suggest also hiring an attendant to help keep the bathrooms running smooth and staying clean throughout your event.  They cost around $250 for the evening, and you should also get them a vendor meal to be nice :)

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