November 23rd, 2009

Massachusetts and Rhode Island Calligrapher – Megan Chapin Calligraphy

Massachusetts and Rhode Island calligrapher, Megan Chapin Calligraphy, is amazingly talented with over 20 years of experience and is a featured vendor new to my Kate Parker Wedding.  Check out some of her work!

Massachusetts and Rhode Island Calligraphy - Megan Chapin

Since wedding invitations are generally the first impression for guests, it’s important to pick a style and lettering that is reflective of your personality and tone of the wedding.

Massachusetts and Rhode Island Calligrapher - Megan Chapin Calligraphy

Love that this incorporates two letter styles to give it a bit of formality to a casual look.

Massachusetts and Rhode Island Calligrapher - Megan Chapin Calligraphy

Massachusetts and Rhode Island Calligrapher - Megan Chapin Calligraphyimage by Scott Metzger Photography

Massachusetts and Rhode Island Calligrapher - Megan Chapin Calligraphy

Megan Chapin Calligraphy
Website: www.meganchapincalligraphy.com
my Kate Parker Wedding State and Budget: MA and RI $50-80k

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November 23rd, 2009

Quote of the Day

We cannot destroy kindred: our chains stretch a little sometimes, but they never break.
– Marquise de Sévigné

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November 20th, 2009

my Kate Parker Weddings partners with 14 Stories and the Gay Wedding Institute

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Massachusetts Wedding Planner: Bernadette Smith

Massachusetts Wedding Planner: Bernadette Smith

my Kate Parker Wedding will be featuring a lot of firsts in the world of online wedding resources.  Since we are based in New England, where 4/6 states have legalized same-sex marriage, we will be the first wedding resource to be completely inclusive of all couples.  To us, a wedding is a wedding, and to quote my own blog post from yesterday, according to dictionary.com, a wedding is the act or an instance of blending or joining.  Because of this philosophy, we are so excited and honored to be working with Bernadette Smith, owner of 14 Stories, the first company in the U.S. specializing in planning legal gay weddings, to neutralize the language and photos on my Kate Parker Wedding and to train our vendors on effective marketing to gay and lesbian couples.  Unlike other sites where anyone can pay money to say they are gay friendly (even if they are not), ours will require that you attend either an in-person or phone training and do a little bit of homework afterwards.

Here’s how it will work: Any of our vendors who indicate their interest in inclusivity will have to attend a training by Bernadette. The goal of this is to be inclusive – and that means of straight couples as well.  Bernadette will show each vendor how to reach gay couples without alienating their straight client base. They can either attend a 3-hour in person training, or they can schedule a phone training.  The in-person training will teach the value of the gay wedding market, explain language, terminology, traditions, mistakes to avoid and helpful tips.  The phone training will involve a dialogue about each vendor’s experience with same-sex couples and a review of their website and materials.  In both cases, they will have to have the language and photos in their website and contract approved by Bernadette. Once a vendor completes a training, you will see the 14 logo in their vendor directory. This logo will be visible to couples and indicate that you have been trained by 14 Stories.

I thought I would end this post on a positive note, giving you some statistics on same-sex marriages in the US.  Have a great weekend everyone!

KP

  • The first state in the U.S. to legalize gay marriage was Massachusetts, in 2004.
  • Now, gay marriages can legally occur in Connecticut (2008), Iowa (2009), Vermont (2009) – and as of January 1, 2010 New Hampshire.
  • Massachusetts has had 12k+ gay marriages since 2004.
  • Connecticut has had about 2,300 in one year.
  • Iowa has had about 1,400 gay marriages in 7 months.
  • Vermont #s aren’t out yet – they just started Sept 1.
  • $111 million was spent on LGBT weddings in Massachusetts in the five years they have been legal, according to the Williams Institute at the UCLA School of Law.

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November 20th, 2009

Quote of the Day

I have found the best way to give advice to your children is to find out what they want and then advise them to do it. ~ Harry S. Truman

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November 19th, 2009

Maine, Massachusetts and Vermont Photographer – Birch Blaze Photography

Check out some vendor advice from Birch Blaze Weddings on how to select the right wedding photographer for your wedding and how to use the time on your wedding day wisely.  Also, read about their thoughts on some current industry trends.

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Maine, Massachusetts and Vermont Photographer - Birch Blaze Weddings

1) Up to 10 pieces of advice you’d give a bride when considering a photographer and how to work with the photographer throughout the year and on the day of the wedding.

First of all we can’t stress enough the importance of finding the photographer that is the right fit for you. Photographs are frozen moments in time. It’s up to the photographer to know at precisely what moment the shutter should be clicked to best capture that perfect flash of personality. As the subject, you want a photographer that you feel comfortable with, someone you trust. When that trust exists, your personality and the joy of your day will be abundantly evident in your photos.

How can you determine what photographer is the right fit? Well, when you look at a photographer’s online portfolio, how does it make you feel? Do you feel a connection with the photos? Do they engender any kind of emotion? Your answer to these questions can help you determine if scheduling a meet-up might be in order.

When meeting with a photographer, how does he or she make you feel? Do they put you at ease? Are they confident? Does it feel like they would be someone you could envision hanging out with? Of course there are numerous articles and tips on what questions you should ask—the answers to which are important. And it does not negate the need to make sure they’re reputable. A good way to determine that is to look at their work and see if it is consistent. Ultimately though, we believe how you feel about the photographer will also go a long way in determining if they are the wedding photographer for you.

Secondly, once you have found the one (or two, as in our case), on your wedding day, trust your photographer. Trust the same creative vision that attracted you to them originally. You should never be expected to do something you truly do not feel comfortable with, but have fun and be open to fresh ideas. There are many poses and classic shots that are tried and true, but by trusting and giving your photographer some creative freedom, you’ll be rewarded with photos that are both classic and beautiful as well as some great shots with a unique flare.

Finally, if you’re having an outdoor ceremony, we recommend consulting with your photographer in regards to the time and positioning of the ceremony to make the best use of day light, which can present challenges to achieving a great result outdoors. We certainly realize that there are many factors to consider when planning the ceremony that may come before photography, but if great ceremony photos are really important to you…just ask!

2) Any current trends that you see to do with photography, whether it’s style, engagement sessions, equipment, etc.

We love that wedding photography is moving further and further away from the stiff, somewhat unnaturally posed look of prior decades. Looking back, you want your wedding photos to fill you with the sense of what you were feeling on that day and how great you looked, not, “Oh God, look at that horrendous hair style!” or, “I can’t believe that god-awful background!”
We also are big proponents of First Look. For some, it may be ‘kicking sand in the face’ of tradition, but if our couples are ok with that, it gives us as photographers an intimate pocket of time before the ceremony to get some fantastic images of just the bride and groom. It also eases the time crunch of shooting the formals between the ceremony and the reception, because the B&G have already had theirs.

Maine, Massachusetts and Vermont Photographer - Birch Blaze Weddings

Having a Bagpiper at your wedding can be a fun and exciting addition to your ceremony, and it is certainly something your guests will remember.

Maine, Massachusetts and Vermont Photographer - Birch Blaze Weddings

This beautiful shade of purple is fun and elegant.  I love the rich color is a rustic setting!

Maine, Massachusetts and Vermont Photographer - Birch Blaze Weddings

How adorable is this flower girl! The purple head wreath is a great way to make her feel like she is a very important part of the wedding.

Maine, Massachusetts and Vermont Photographer - Birch Blaze Weddings

I love the feel of the shot, it’s casual and has some great movement, notice the groomsmen kissing the brides hand . . .

Maine, Massachusetts and Vermont Photographer - Birch Blaze Weddings

Maine, Massachusetts and Vermont Photographer - Birch Blaze Weddings

This image has a wonderful feel, I love the water in the background and the hard angle.

Maine, Massachusetts and Vermont Photographer - Birch Blaze Weddings

Maine, Massachusetts and Vermont Photographer - Birch Blaze Weddings
Maine, Massachusetts and Vermont Photographer - Birch Blaze Weddings

Maine, Massachusetts and Vermont Photographer - Birch Blaze Weddings

They look so comfortable together . . .

Birch Blaze Photography
Website: www.nhweddingphotographer.com
Blog: www.birchblazephotography.com
Email: info@birchblaze.com
my Kate Parker Wedding State and Budget: ME <$25k, MA <$25k and VT <$25k

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