October 28th, 2011

Dress Your Wedding Like You Dress Yourself | Advice from MMD Events

We all have gone through stages of styles as we’ve grown up … and I’m not gonna lie, I’ve gone through stages where I wore girly Timberlands and Polo tees, Hollister and Abercrombie gear with butterfly clips, and the real kicker in my younger years – fleece vests and braces with jeans and sneakers – just awesome.

But as the years have gone by, I have – like we all have – fell into my own little style.  I’ve discovered the power of black shirts and jeans and killer high heels.  I have discovered that I am a simple gal with a simple style.  But whatever your personal style is, your wedding should reflect a style that you are comfortable with, something that reflects you and your partner – nothing that you aren’t totally in love with.  MMD Events wrote this great expert advice article about tackling your wedding as if you were tackling your wardrobe, with your own style that you love.  Check it out below and visit MMD Events on my Kate Parker Wedding!

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As we age, we start building a signature style. We begin to frame ourselves, how we want others to experience us. When we shop we ask ourselves – is this me? Does this fit my style? Smart shoppers know that a true bargain is something that we really wear – that truly becomes a part of our wardrobe. We all agree on these rules.

So why do we throw out all of these rules when we plan our wedding?

An engagement brings on the temptation to shop and to bargain hunt, then suddenly everything wedding and bridal goes into the cart. When it’s all said and done you reach your wedding day with a bag full of wedding trinkets that were cheap individually, but have added up to several hundred dollars collectively and none of it truly reflects your style.

Here’s a perfect example: A bride of ours shopped so much at JoAnn Fabrics that when she returned all the random stuff she had bought “on sale”, it was enough to cover her lighting design bill!

How do you dress your wedding as you dress yourself? Ask yourself these questions:

- Does this work for me?
- Does this reflect the wedding style I’m trying to achieve?
- Where will I put this?
- Is it exactly what I want?
- How does this purchase affect my price per table?
- Is it worth it?

Remember to design your wedding thoughtfully and with attention to detail – just as you would do for yourself!

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Central Florida wedding floral & event designerMMD Events is a memeber of my Kate Parker Wedding your online wedding resource guide geared towards directing couples to quality vendors based on their price range and state.

*Previously posted on 9.27.10

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    October 26th, 2011

    Classic Wedding Inspiration Board

    The Fall season is shaping up to be absolutely beautiful, both the weather and the foliage are gorgeous and I love a good fall inspiration board, but today I brought it back to the basics and created a classic inspiration board.  With the whites and creams of this style, you really can’t go wrong.  One of the wonderful things about weddings is that they are always changing … there are always new styles and fads and trends to pull from and play with and create beautiful designs with.  But even with all of these modern ideas and designs, classic weddings will always have a place in the world of design.  Check out the classic inspiration board below and visit my Kate Parker Wedding to be inspired by more weddings, photographs, and expert advice!

    images above by: avenna studios | details wedding planning | emici bridal | gus & ruby letterpress | carla ten eyck photography and jubilee events | concept photography | petals floral design | lucia paul design | troy battle photography | flora fauna | amanda mcmahon photography

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    All of the vendors above are members of my Kate Parker Wedding, your online wedding resource guide geared towards directing couples to quality vendors based on their price range and state.

    *Previously posted on 10.14.10

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      October 21st, 2011

      Choosing Your Wedding Flowers | 10 Tips by Simple Bouquets

      As you are thinking about your wedding, you may have every single idea in the world for your wedding floral design, or … no ideas at all.  Either way, you’re floral design should end up being fabulous and should ultimately mesh with the design of the wedding as a whole.  Whether you have a classic arrangement in mind or a totally modern arrangement in mind, there are flowers that will fit perfectly for your style.  Here are a few tips from Robin of Masssachusetts wedding floral designerSimple Bouquets to guide you through the process of choosing your wedding flowers.  To see more floral designs by Simple Bouquets, visit them on my Kate Parker Wedding.

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      10 Tips on Choosing Your Wedding Flowers

      1. Decide what your budget is. A creative florist can work around your budget and should have your best interest in mind.

      2. Think about 2 or 3 colors you love. Maybe you think they cannot be used together but share them with your florist. They may very well find a way to use them to compliment each other.

      3. Think on a style. Have you always dreamed of a sophisticated wedding? A country wedding? A classic wedding? A festive wedding? Or some combination of those things. Put them in order of most important.

      4. Do you have a theme in mind? Is the idea of a princess wedding appealing to you? What about a nature theme with butterflies and natural branches? Or a Zen or Asian feel?

      5. Is there a flower that you cannot live without in your wedding? Does that need to be in the boutonniere, bride’s bouquet, the bridesmaid’s bouquets or centerpieces?

      6. Look up bouquet styles on the web: Cascade, Hand Tied, Arm Bouquet, Single Stem.

      7. Bring some photos of styles of wedding flowers you have seen and love to your floral consultation.

      8. Remember that magazines and web articles often show very expensive flowers in simple designs. Your florist should be able to show you how to get a similar look and feel for much better value.

      9. Remember that your florist works for you. They should be available, helpful and honest about what she can and cannot do within your budget.

      10. Stick to your guns! Don’t allow any wedding vendor to push you into contracting for things you really cannot afford or will be in debt for later. Remember this is only one day and starting your new life stress free is far more important than having that additional item you probably won’t even have time to notice at your ceremony or reception.

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      Massachusetts wedding floral & event designer, Simple Bouquets, is a member of my Kate Parker Wedding, your online wedding resource guide geared towards directing couples to quality vendors based on their price range and state.

      *previously posted on 10.14.10

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        October 14th, 2011

        Thank You Note Dos and Don’ts | Expert Advice from Lasso’d Moon Designs

        Is it about that time where you are gearing up to finally attack that stack of thank you notes and envelopes?  Well to ease the blow and hand cramps you might get during the process, check out this great “how to write your thank you notes” advice article below! This expert advice article was written by Carey of Lasso’d Moon Designs.  Read the full expert advice article on my Kate Parker Wedding!

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        Thank You Note Dos and Don’ts

        Writing your thank you notes is perhaps one of the most important things you can do for your guests after your wedding.  And while the task of writing 100 notes is daunting and time consuming, it’s definitely a necessity.  The best thank you note includes the gift-givers names, the gift that they gave you and something about it.  For instance:

        Dear Aunt Mary and Uncle Fred,

        We’re so glad you were able to attend our wedding. Thank you so much for the waffle maker- we’ve used it several times already and have really enjoyed it.

        All our love,

        Tammy and John

        Or, if you’ve been given money:

        Dear Grandma and Grandpa,

        Thank you so much for your gift {or Thank you for your generosity}. We plan on using your gift as part of our down payment (on purchasing a dishwasher/stove/ other item).  It was very much appreciated.

        Love,

        Tammy and John

        and if you’ve just been given a card:

        Dear Cousin Sally,

        Thank you so much for attending our wedding, the lovely card and well wishes. We’re so glad you were able to come- we know it’s a long trip.  I hope we’ll get to see you again soon.

        Love,

        Tammy and Josh

        While it’s tempting, do not send out a pre-printed card.  Your guests spent a lot of money and time to see you and wish you well in your new life.  Older guests especially will appreciate the time and thoughtfulness of a handwritten thank you note.  Writing out notes can take a while, so cozy up with a glass of wine and a few favorite DVRed shows and you’ll be done in no time!

        Carey
        Lasso’d Moon Designs
        www.LMDinvitations.com

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        New England and NYC/Westchester County wedding paper products company, Lasso’d Moon Designs is a member of my Kate Parker Wedding, your online wedding resource guide geared towards directing couples to quality vendors based on their price range and state.

        *Previously posted on 10.7.10

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          June 27th, 2011

          {Choosing a Stationer} A Deux Bespoke Bridal Paper

          Besides the paper product, a stationer provides service: advice and guidance on wording, items to be included, quantities to be ordered, turnaround times, and reliability of manufacturers. You can find a good stationer by word of mouth: Ask friends, vendors and your wedding planner for recommendations.

          From the first save-the-date card mailed to the last thank-you note received, a wedding creates a lovely paper trail. Some tips on finding your guide:

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          FIRST THINGS FIRST:

          If your invitation designer doesn’t know the difference between “stationery” and “stationary,” you need another vendor NOW.

          YOUR BUDGET:

          Before you begin your search, it’s key to figure out your price point. You don’t want to unnecessarily tempt yourself with stationery that turns out to be out of your budget. Additionally, you may find that you want to expand or limit your budget depending on how important stationery is to you and how many different pieces you want to order.

          Prices — which generally includes the invitation and envelope and the reply card and envelope — range from $2 to $70 per set. The type of printing process will greatly affect the cost. Custom designs with special details — such as handmade paper, calligraphy, painted embellishments or silk and crystal details — are the most expensive.

          TEMPLATE OR CUSTOM:

          There are two basic choices in wedding stationery: pre-designed invitations or custom invitations, which are created especially for your event. As a general rule, custom invitations tend to be more expensive than pre-designed ones. But different factors such as printing method and amount of pieces ordered can affect the price and make one a more cost-effective option than the other. à deux only does custom work.
          Timing is an important consideration when deciding between album templates and custom designs. Some designers need up to three months to complete custom orders, so to be able to postmark invitations 2 to 4 months before your wedding, you’ll need to start shopping at least six months in advance. Most template-design orders will not require this much lead time; as little as a week’s production time may suffice.

          HOW MANY PIECES?:

          Do you want simple invitation sets or a full suite of stationery including save the date cards, programs, menu cards, place cards? It’s important to consider what pieces you want: if you want invitations alone, you may be able to splurge on higher-end designs and create your own programs and placecards to your liking. Alternatively, if you are busy or DIY-challenged, you may wish to order an entire suite to ensure that all the pieces have a unified look.

          PRINTING:

          The primary printing methods are flat printing, engraving, thermography, letterpress and screen printing. Each has its own advantages and disadvantages. Flat printing has the most versatility and is also the most cost-effective. Engraving is a luxurious and traditional option, but it can be pricey. Letterpress is completely charming and lovely and wonderfully tactile. However, it has some printing limitations and it can be expensive. Thermography is a modern favorite– it gives the appearance of engraving without the OMG! price tag. Screen-printed invitations are slowly becoming pretty popular.

          LOCATION:

          This may or may not be important depending on your needs. If you’re a computer savvy, email-friendly person, you may want to consider stationers outside your local area. Make sure the stationer is easily reached via email AND phone. If you want to “experience” the offerings ahead of time and you want the option of looking over an entire portfolio, you may want to consider choosing someone closer to home.

          STYLE:

          It’s important to find a stationer who shares and understands your personal style. This is particularly important when creating custom stationery. Look through portfolios to see how many designs really speak to you and if you feel confident that the stationer can bring your ideas to fruition.

          REFERENCES:

          When you select a stationery vendor, you’re relying on their expertise. You trust them to know what they are doing, but how can you tell if they really are experts deserving of your trust? Before you sign a contract, be sure to Google the potential stationer for reviews and check references. Wedding stationery is an important and emotional investment — you want to be sure you’re working with someone trustworthy, honest, and reputable.

          Most stationers will request a deposit of at least 50 percent at the time of the order. Read the contract carefully before signing, and ask questions to prevent costly surprises later on. With clear, open communication throughout, your stationery is sure to be an original reflection of you and your special day.

          {Visit A Deux Bespoke Bridal Paper on my Kate Parker Wedding}

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          Massachusetts, Connecticut, Rhode Island, and NYC wedding paper products, A Deux Bespoke Bridal Paper is a memeber of my Kate Parker Wedding your online wedding resource guide geared towards directing couples to quality vendors based on their price range and state.

          Previously posted on 9/30/2010

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